Until recently, no one knew who I was- including me.
I personally have been betraying myself since childhood.
Taught to bend to the will of those on whom I felt dependent for survival, I have suppressed my nature in order to fit in.
Navigating the world from masks and pretenses, I have betrayed everyone else with whom I was in relationships, whether romantic or professional.
Faking it till I made it, I stuffed myself into an idealized and sterile version of myself in order to control and manipulate other people’s perceptions of me.
Until recently, no one knew who I was—including me.
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True freedom is inherent. It is within.
We’ve lost contact with it through the hierarchical and oppressive system in which we’ve lived for centuries.
We stifle our true voice in relationships to keep the peace, to keep the family together, for duty, for tradition, for validation, for a sense of self-worth, for fear of scarcity or being alone.
Used to sacrifice our true nature in relationships, we’ve come to think that freedom can only come from living on our own.
When we reconnect to our innate sense of freedom, we naturally affect and rearrange our environment. We no longer have to leave our relationships to find freedom, but learn how to find freedom within our relationships.
What I’m offering is a complete overhaul of how we do relationships.
I will not teach you love languages.
Or tell you how many times per week to have sex.
Or advise you how you need to behave to save the marriage.
Or how to present yourself on a date.
I seriously don’t care about that. That’s just noise. A distraction.
You know how you can understand intimacy?
By learning how to feel safe to be who you are, no matter where or with whom.
By cracking your armor.
And removing the heavy load of your woundedness and your ancestral past from your shoulders.
By remembering your voice.
And then learning to use it to speak your truth, to communicate your preferences and desires – beyond language!
How important is it for you to know intimacy?
To heal trauma?
To thaw your heart?
And what are you prepared to do to get there?
Will you make time?
Will you allocate resources?
Or will you wait some more?
When there’ll be more time.
Or more money.
Or when the universe makes it convenient for you?
How have I changed since I had my six sessions with Galina?
I have changed in so many aspects that it is difficult for me to put them into words.
The most significant aspect is the change in my assertiveness and in expressing myself.
I used to be a spectator of my life: my energy turns inwards and sometimes can be taken as
a sign of passivity. Which for sure some times in the past happened. To be drowned was
easier than taking steps or my responsibilities. I would blame myself afterward, for not
having the courage to manifest my thoughts or opinions.
Now I take responsibility, I can express in a nonviolent way my meanings and most
importantly, I am an observer of myself and my process.
In the past I would just swim into my emotions, I would feel wrong for feeling in that or this
way, I would feel like I don’t belong and wouldn’t feel understood.
Through Galina’s coaching to reparent myself, of being my own authority, once I have a low
moment, it takes very little effort to recognize the pattern, to see where it comes from and my
response to it. I learned to not judge it and to feel without being lost in it.
In my relationships with others, I can be really present and manifest in my authenticity. I
don’t feel anymore like I need to play a part in order to be accepted: my conversations with
my friends have become deeper, a stronger connection has developed, I can feel and create
a safe space with them and manifesting as I am. In the past I was the listener, now I am
actively participating in the conversation. Some friendships have grown stronger and some
new connections have been created.
Once I discovered my true nature, it became impossible to stand in situations or
environments where my values are not met: in the past I would stay and swallow bad
feelings until my body would become ill. Now I can proudly set my boundaries and not see
them as being selfish.
I wish all of us could experience being our own most important authority, and I will gladly
recommend Galina for those who are ready to start the process and welcome magic in
life.
~Valentina