Galina Singer offers a perspective on relating that both challenges and liberates. Rather than teaching people how to communicate better or spot red flags, she asks a more uncomfortable question: What if the work isn’t fixing your partner, but learning to feel safe within yourself?

Through her Safe To Be Me framework, Galina explores what becomes possible when it is truly safe to be yourself, in your body, your emotions, and your relationships. She challenges the belief that our suffering in love is caused by others, and invites people out of the comfort of blame and emotional outsourcing, into self-responsibility, emotional maturity, and inner safety.

Drawing from somatic awareness, nervous system regulation, and lived relational experience, her work helps people change the way they relate to themselves, knowing that the relationship to self sets the tone for every other one. Often described as confronting but deeply empowering, her work shows how sourcing safety, love, and authority from within turns responsibility into freedom, allowing relationships to become places of real connection rather than self-abandonment.

Her work resonates deeply with audiences who are tired of surface-level advice and ready for conversations that respect their intelligence, humanity, and capacity to grow.

Conversation Angles:

• What does it actually mean to be safe to be yourself in a relationship?
• Why blame feels safer than responsibility
• How emotional immaturity sabotages intimacy
• Secure attachment as a lived experience, not a theory
• Why self-responsibility is the missing piece in modern love

Why book Galina:

• She says what many people think but rarely hear named
• She reframes responsibility as freedom, not burden
• She blends lived experience with contemporary somatic research
• She creates emotional safety while challenging complacency

Galina doesn’t:

• Tell people what to do
• Give scripts
• Offer quick fixes

She creates:

• Spaces where responsibility is normalised, without shame
• Conversations that say what others avoid
• Connexion between body + emotion + insight
• Relational work that doesn’t bypass discomfort
• Learning to trust our own inner guidance

Book Galina for Speaking Engagements >>

Suggested Speaking Topics:

Relating to Self
How to Stop Abandoning Yourself in Love
The Relationship You Can’t Outsource: You

The Body, Attachment, and Intimacy with Others
(How) Your Nervous System Is Running Your Love Life
Why Safety Is More Transformative Than Passion
From Triggers to Truth: What Conflict Is Really Asking of Us

Rewriting the Rules of Love: Cultural Myths & Relational Patterns
Why There is No Such Thing as a Healthy Relationship / (Debunking) The Myth of the Perfect Partner
Why Modern Relationships Fail: Not From Lack of Love, but from Chronic Self-Abandonment

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